I had a taste of what Mum goes through married to an unreasonable man today. The stupid idiot called, and prefaced with "I don't want to say anything about your mother" and then proceeded to talk shit about her. When I interrupted with "although you said you do not want to say anything about her, you're saying a lot", he went "but..." and then continued to talk shit, and then hung up the mili-second he finished whatever he had to say, and then switched off his phone so that I could not tell him (nicely) to f-off.
So I told him to f-off in an sms: "I am not my mother. Please do not call me, claim that you "do not want to say anything about her" and then proceed to tell me things about her and then hang up and be uncontactable (You bloody coward). Lisa"
I left out what I put in brackets here.
I mean, what? In order to have the last word he hangs up and then switches off his phone so that technically, he does have the last word? Like that's counted? What is he? Three? Good grief! And this is a grown man. A supposedly educated man. Associate professor, no less. Supposedly devout Buddhist. Bloody bastard, is what I say.
Why does he think he can treat me this way? Because I'm too well brought up (and have better things to do with my time) than to sink to his level? He should know better, especially since I've ticked him off before. Furthermore, I am no longer just Mum's daughter, a minor who can be bullied (as he used to do, before I learnt to stand up for myself - he used to pull this shit regularly, before I firmly but politely, and in no uncertain terms told him to f-off). I am now also someone's wife. So he should really think before he speaks, but then, that may be too much to expect of him.
So after he dared to switch his phone back on, he called several times, but Mr Milo advised me to just ignore him, which I did, because 1) I do not wish to get involved, 2) I do not want to subject myself to his bullying ways and 3) I know that it would piss him off royally to be ignored.
So I told him to f-off in an sms: "I am not my mother. Please do not call me, claim that you "do not want to say anything about her" and then proceed to tell me things about her and then hang up and be uncontactable (You bloody coward). Lisa"
I left out what I put in brackets here.
I mean, what? In order to have the last word he hangs up and then switches off his phone so that technically, he does have the last word? Like that's counted? What is he? Three? Good grief! And this is a grown man. A supposedly educated man. Associate professor, no less. Supposedly devout Buddhist. Bloody bastard, is what I say.
Why does he think he can treat me this way? Because I'm too well brought up (and have better things to do with my time) than to sink to his level? He should know better, especially since I've ticked him off before. Furthermore, I am no longer just Mum's daughter, a minor who can be bullied (as he used to do, before I learnt to stand up for myself - he used to pull this shit regularly, before I firmly but politely, and in no uncertain terms told him to f-off). I am now also someone's wife. So he should really think before he speaks, but then, that may be too much to expect of him.
So after he dared to switch his phone back on, he called several times, but Mr Milo advised me to just ignore him, which I did, because 1) I do not wish to get involved, 2) I do not want to subject myself to his bullying ways and 3) I know that it would piss him off royally to be ignored.
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